“Hope is not a strategy” – Jerry Gallagher
It is important to remain present while knowing that, irrespective of current circumstances, the future will be phenomenal if you know that it will be and you put in the work. Now. If you believe that the miracle that is you has already been created without you having done anything at all then having faith in tomorrow is also possible for you. Now that you are here you need to do your part, you need to begin, you need to show up, you need to create some positive energy and forward motion and have faith that if you do that to the best of your ability then you will create the life you want. As Dr. Wayne Dyer said “you have to believe it before you see it”. Life will always support you in a way that makes you right. Fill your mind with all the reasons why you cannot accomplish something or dedicate your mind an energy toward accomplishing your goal; in the end one of those will come true for you.
We run into difficulty when we are not present, when we spend all our time and energy thinking and worrying about all the things we don’t have rather than being grateful for what we actually do have. Yesterday is no longer here, it is old news. We have absolutely no idea what tomorrow will bring. We will create tomorrow by what we do and think and feel and believe today.
Having a plan and someone to talk to when the plan goes awry is fundamental to success. Thankfully all plans go awry at some point, usually leading to some unimaginably phenomenal developments – if we could have imagined them they would have been part of the plan, we just didn’t know enough until the brick wall fell on us! More often than not we give up or we start convincing ourselves that what we are striving for will not happen – the race won’t go well, the promotion won’t happen, the relationship is a mess, the business won’t work. What if you directed your energy toward making sure, to the best of your ability, that the outcome you want is actually within your reach – that some faith, “preparation and effort” will provide you with a successful outcome, perhaps better than you thought?
Each of us and all of us have an unbreakable spirit which gets tested from time to time, perhaps more often than we would like. We will never see that spirit or benefit from it if we do not know – not believe, know – it is there. When students thank me for helping them improve or achieve one of their goals my response is always this “everything you need is inside you, if I helped you find it then I am happy but always remember, you did the work, you believed in yourself, you believed in your training and continued moving forward.”
The quality of our lives is directly related to how we view and interpret information and events. This interpretation is typically filtered by prior experiences; we need to turn off that filter and start looking forward with some fresh eyes and an open heart or we will forever be stuck with yesterdays problems and issues.
Let me give you the example of a wide receiver for a football team and compare that to what you might describe as your successes and failures (these stats are public information):
Number of seasons 13
Number of total games 190
Number of offensive plays in a typical football game 60
Number of potential plays that could have involved this player 11,400
Number of times he was targeted for a pass/play 1,239
Number of receptions 668
The typical conversation many of us would have goes something like this: “I only got picked 11% of the time (1,239 out of 11,400 possible times) and I didn’t catch it half the times (669 out of 1,239) the quarterback targeted me.” This particular player knows that the two things in his control are his “preparation and effort” (that is a direct quote, you can read the article HERE ) and that by doing those two things he cannot guarantee, but he can absolutely influence, his outcome. In order to prepare properly and make the best possible effort you must first believe, then know, that your outcome is available to you. The Giants did not win the Super Bowl in January, 2001, they did not allow that “failure” to stop them from achieving their goal in 2008.
Reading this, this former pro is probably scratching his head saying ……(you will hear it for yourself if you tune in to our inaugural podcast next week with Amani Toomer). Yes, these are the actual stats for Amani Toomer, All Pro wide receiver for the NY Giants, recognized as one of the greatest receivers of all time HERE, on the Super Bowl winning team in 2008 (after coming back from knee surgery).
Look for what is good, in people and in life; know that your success is there for you if you believe in yourself (Your Self) and are willing to move forward knowing that your opportunity is there for the taking – you will be pleasantly surprised at how your life changes for the positive.